I felt so much better when I realized how much stronger I felt for not responding. Not knowing will torture him, leave him wondering and give you the upper hand.

Hope this helps.

I’ll give her some time to cool down and reflect on this incident. There was a phone conversation in the middle of the fb chaos, but she was being accusatory asking if I was trying to start a fight. I was like… are you serious? In any case, there could be more to it that she hasn’t told me but nothing that I’m aware of. Hopefully this will be cleared up sooner or later. We have too many mutual friends and I don’t want any awkward encounters.

plus, i do not know who she is. at any rate, she was wayyy out of line from where i stand.

her extreme reaction and defensive posturing to such a simple remark makes me question what is going on behind the scenes.

it is possible that your friend could have just have had a rotten day and that facing the additionally frustrating traffic was the proverbial straw. or maybe she is going through something.

so many possibilities . . .

but my two cents is: if you two are truly friends, a phone call should clear the whole mess.